It seems being at the doctor's office and being at the post office at the same time is impossible, thus you are incapacitated.
When I see the dentist or eye doc, I walk in there and walk out.
They are legitimate reasons to use sick leave, but am I "incapacitated?"
These bozos are jerking you around, and they are so pretty, they're happy to make your children miserable. SHAME.
Harassment, hostile work environment?
Do you have decent union reps? Jump forward, call the DR.
You deserve better.
If you can transfer, I would.
You don't need to be hassled and baited for doing an excellent job by some impotent supervisor.
It's easy for subs to transfer, but not regulars, or I would have transferred out of my hell hole years ago.
Many of the subs in a neighboring office are now happy and appreciated.
They tell me how great it is when I run into them around town.
There is a post by
@blondie in the Off Topic threads about this very thing.
If you can't transfer out, keep a log on this idiot, like I am.
Dates, witnesses, times, a few quotation marks.
My idiot supervisor saw my log when we met with the postal inspector about my stalker.
It shows what he did to put me in danger.
He's still short sighted enough to pull retaliatory stuff with me.
I continue to document his actions, and instead of a chore, it's satisfying, knowing I'm doing it with a purpose.